This is a message for all of the kind people in the world, for those who have kind and compassionate hearts, & are always surprised when people behave badly towards them or speak badly of them...
Life is full of lessons, if you know how to look. If you have the awareness to look from a different angle at every situation, you may realise that many people are unwittingly teachers for our own personal growth and transformation. (Aren't we lucky?!)
No matter how well known you become, or how many friends you have; No matter how accomplished; No matter how you behave or what you do, there will always be someone who has a problem with you, that treats you unfairly or is unkind.
The way that other people behave speaks volumes about them and their personalities, it genuinely has nothing to do with you, so absolutely do not let their actions cause you to doubt yourself or cause you any pain. If it rattles you, use it as a vessel to learn and grow. Deepen your knowledge of self and help it to free you from the shackles of your 'Ego'. What is it that is being threatend by their words or behaviours? What past experience or memory is being brought to the surface that once caused you pain, and why is this still bothering you? You can use their judgements and behaviour as a tool and a vessel for self mastery, a goal that is sought by many on a higher path, or at least a more spiritual, simple and peaceful one. Let it help to release what no longer serves you, & use it to evoke inner wisdom and rise above... Don't let them dim your light!
Don't let your ego get in your way, & the false belief that everyone has to like you. Other peoples opinions do not matter. It's only yours that counts... If you are being your truest & most genuine self, if you live with compassion, are kind to others, & stand by your morals, then you are on the right track my friend. You are vibrating high. Don't let the negativity and flaws in others drag you down....
Love & Light my friends, and stay kind...
Namaste,
xoxoxoxoxoxoxox